A Granny’s moving letter to her twin baby grandsons

A Grandmother from Crowborough who had the heart-breaking job of saying goodbye to her deceased grandsons while comforting her daughter has written a powerful love letter for Valentine’s Day.

Sue with her daughter Sam Rumens.

Sue with her daughter Sam Rumens.

Sue Bamblett said goodbye to twin grandsons Jacob and George Matthews-Rumens when they sadly passed away at University College Hospital in London.  She cradled Jacob in her arms and saw him pass away after just a few minutes of life.  George was sadly stillborn a few days later.

They were born within a few days of each other at around 24 weeks and Sue was there throughout to support her daughter Sam and her partner Jim.

Sue has written to the boys in the hopes her letter will inspire people to donate to the Big Research Appeal – a fundraising drive by multiple births charity Tamba (Twins and Multiple Births Association) to pay for research to limit and prevent premature births.

Keith Reed, CEO of Tamba, said:

This Valentine’s Day we’re encouraging people to donate whatever they can afford to our Big Research Appeal.

We need to fund research in order to stop more premature babies, like little Jacob and George, being born too early.

It may only be a few pounds from one person, but that small change will make a big difference for our families in future.

Tamba wants to kiss goodbye to prematurity this Valentine’s Day.  And with your help, we can achieve it.

If you would like to donate please visit TAMBA’s Big Research Appeal.

Any multiple birth parents or expectant parents who would like to find out more about Tamba can visit www.tamba.org.uk or call their listening service Twinline on 0800 138 0509 for support

Sue’s letter is below…

Dear Jacob and George I didn’t get to see you in your school nativity - George, such a serious Innkeeper, and Jacob fidgety in a scratchy shepherd’s costume. I chose Christmas presents for you – I popped them in the Salvation Army collection box. I can't believe you are five already. Izzie and Poppy sang Happy Birthday and blew out your candles. You sent me a double rainbow, soaring high above my neighbours rooftops.Last June, when my buddleia came into bloom, I watched as you played tag around the bush, tumbling and frolicking in the sunshine. Every summer I gather pebbles and shells for your sandcastles, and each autumn I fill my pockets with conkers - burnished brown like grandad’s polished brogues Jacob, I see you when Cousin Josh kicks a ball, and I glimpse you in Poppy's cheeky grin. George, I hear you in Izzie’s giggle, and see you in Cousin Eloise's funny frown. I feel you both as the sun warms my face, but when my other grandkids are chasing around the garden, two of the gang are missing. Izzie tells me you are stars in the sky, but she wishes you’d come down and play. I wish that too. Jacob, in one breath we said hello and goodbye. I watched your little face - eyes tightly closed. A flutter of life as an angel tickled your nose – I wish my gentle breath could have filled your lungs with oxygen… I rocked you gently, and told you how much we all love you – Mummy, Daddy, your brother George - such a big loving family. You left us with an ache in our arms, and a gaping hole in our hearts. George, as I cradled you, you reminded me of my dad – arms folded and slightly irritated as if someone had disturbed you - long fingers and your mummy's rosebud lips. Poor little soldier, you’d been through such a battle… You are Jacob’s big little brother - now you must look after each other. My darling grandsons, I wish you’d had more time with your mummy and daddy, because your mummy and daddy are truly amazing. I won't ever forget you – I carry you with me always and forever. I’m so grateful I had the chance to hold you and tell you how much you mean to me. All my love. Granny xx

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